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10,000 Nights. And What That Number Really Means.

Updated: Apr 1

We’ve been counting since night one. Every thousand was a milestone, celebrated and marked as a team. But 10,000 is different. 10,000 is the number we can’t keep quiet about. Not just because of what it represents, but because of what it’s made of: days, hours, and the kind of moments that don’t make it onto any report.


10,000 safe nights of housing provided since AcademySTAY opened its doors in October 2024.


We knew when it arrived. Our team had been watching, counting, marking every milestone together. And when night 10,000 came, somewhere in North Sacramento, a student came home from class, unlocked a door that belongs to them, and went to sleep. We were ready for that moment. We just weren’t ready to stop talking about it.


Johnny, one of our students and our marketing intern, told us something when he heard the milestone. In many Asian cultures — Chinese, Japanese, Korean — the number 10,000 doesn't just mean a quantity. It means boundless. It means so vast it can't be measured. The Great Wall of China is literally named "the wall of ten thousand li" — not because someone counted every stone, but because it seemed to stretch without end. In Chinese, the highest blessing you can offer someone is wànsuì — ten thousand years. Not a wish for a long life. A wish for a life without limit.

We think that's exactly right.


This is what 10,000 nights looks like, through Johnny's eyes:



Because what 10,000 nights represents isn't a number on a report. It's 10,000 times a young adult in Sacramento went to sleep without wondering where they'd be tomorrow. It's 10,000 mornings that began with something most of us take entirely for granted: certainty.


For young adults who've aged out of foster care, certainty is not a given. Nearly half of California foster youth experience homelessness within 18 months of leaving the system. In Sacramento, 25% of the entire unhoused population has a history in foster care. When we opened our doors, 78% of our students were unstably housed at intake — couch-surfing, in shelters, or without a place to sleep at all.


Three people smiling at a dinner table during the AcademySTAY Third Anniversary celebration.
Tyler (center), Occupational Therapy doctoral intern, with AcademySTAY staff members Jessica and Jasmine at the Third Anniversary celebration.

"I've never had a stable home living situation and I've always wanted that," wrote Jaz, 18, in her application. "I am in need of assistance on how to get started with my new life."


That sentence could have been written by any one of the 62 young adults we've served. What they were asking for was not complicated. A door that locks. A kitchen table. A place where someone knows their name and believes they're going somewhere.


"Having stable housing would allow me to focus on school without worrying about where I'm going to sleep." — Tay, 23


That is the whole equation. Housing is not a reward for getting your life together. It is the condition that makes getting your life together possible.

Christopher Bendorf and Patty Hernandez, both members of the AcademySTAY Advisory Committee
Christopher Bendorf and Patty Hernandez, both members of the AcademySTAY Advisory Committee

This is why AcademySTAY requires 100% of students to be enrolled in college or vocational training — not as a bar to clear, but as the expectation we hold alongside them. Right now, 39 students are living in our North Sacramento apartments pursuing degrees, trade certifications, and credentials. Sacramento City College. Sacramento State. JobCorps. UEI. Automotive technology. Healthcare. Cosmetology. They are not waiting for their lives to begin. They are building them, one class at a time, in a place that finally stays still long enough for them to work.


"I'm the first in my family to go to college. AcademySTAY is the reason I'm still enrolled." — Anonymous student


Fewer than 4% of foster youth earn a college degree by their mid-twenties, even though 93% say that's what they want. The gap between aspiration and outcome is not about ambition. It is about what happens when you're trying to write a paper and you don't know where you'll sleep next week.


Tabitha, our Board Secretary, knows this firsthand. She and her husband fostered two siblings — taking them on as teenagers when the system could no longer hold them.


"They are now 25 and 27. One has her degree and is also married with a baby, and the other is going back to school. Watching the system fail them — even though we were there to advocate every single day — really struck me. There are so many young people who don't have a me or a Jenny to sit there and walk them through this. AcademySTAY does that." - Tabitha, Board Secretary

What Tabitha's kids have — a degree, a marriage, a family, a second chance at school — is what stable, supported young adulthood can produce. AcademySTAY exists to make that possible for young people who didn't have a Tabitha in their corner.


Our volunteers see it too. Nathan started volunteering at AcademySTAY the way most people do — he just showed up. Sometimes he helps fix something around the building. Sometimes he sits down and talks with a student about work, about life, about what’s possible.

“The conversations that I have with the students — I come home and my heart is so big. I can think of no better way to spend my time.” — Nathan, volunteer

Our board chair Jason, who owns the building our students call home, said it the way he always does — simply and without hesitation:

"I know kids are sleeping the night there, and not on the street. So that's the part of the mission that I focus on, and it's really simple and straightforward." - Jason France, Board Chair

Simple. Straightforward. A young person goes to sleep safe tonight. Tomorrow they go to class.


Elizabeth, a member of our staff who has been there from the beginning, described what it means to watch that happen up close:

"It's powerful to work in a place that gets it. Where we don't see these youth as broken, just brilliant and tired." - Elizabeth Brown, Operations Manager

Tyler, who recently completed a 12-week occupational therapy doctoral rotation at AcademySTAY, put it this way:

“The biggest learning opportunity was taking off that clinical lens, stepping away from the textbooks, and really sitting in the passenger seat and buckling up — because the youth have experienced pretty significant, life-changing situations. 10,000 is so significant. And 10,000 more!” — Tyler, Occupational Therapy doctoral intern

Brilliant and tired. That's who we serve. Young adults who have been carrying more than anyone should carry at 19 or 22 or 24, and who still show up — to class, to work, to their own futures — because someone finally gave them a place to put their things down.


Jenny Davidson and Jim Keplinger celebrating 10,000 safe nights for students at AcademySTAY
Jenny Davidson and Jim Keplinger celebrating 10,000 safe nights for students at AcademySTAY

Ten thousand nights ago, we didn't know exactly what we were building. We knew the need was urgent and the model was right. Now we know something else. We know what boundless looks like in practice. It looks like 10,000 mornings. It looks like 39 students in class today. It looks like Tabitha's daughter, married and holding her own baby. It looks like a son walking back through a college door.


We are not done counting.


If you'd like to be part of the next 10,000 nights, you can make a gift at academystay.org/donate. Every $50 provides one safe night of housing. Every night is a morning that follows.

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What a tremendous success!

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